Watching events unfold
at United Airlines over the last few days have filled me with shock, awe, and horror. As a result of this public relations
disaster, their motto “flying the friendly skies” has turned into “not enough
seating, prepare for a beating.” America stands as a beacon of freedom from
oppression. United Airlines was an
iconic American company until last Sunday, with a responsibility to uphold the intent
of the immortal words in the Declaration of Independence, “all men are created
equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights
that among these are Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.”
In my opinion, much of the backlash was initially a
result of the lackluster attempt at an apology from the CEO of United Airlines,
Oscar Munoz. Despite three attempts, he
still appears rather oblivious to the real suffering of Dr. Dao. Physicians have been taught that the best
thing to do in the face of a medical error is to be honest, forthcoming, and apologize;
it must be genuine and from the heart -- acknowledge our blunder, take
responsibility for our mistake, and convey our sincere regret. Executives at United Airlines would do well
to heed these words.
According to scientific research, there are six
ingredients which constitute a proper
apology – 1. Expression of regret, 2. Explanation of what went wrong, 3.
Acknowledgement of responsibility, 4. Declaration of repentance, 5. Offer of
repair, and 6. Request for forgiveness.
The request for forgiveness is missing from apologies offered by this
corporation.
Describing the violence caught on video as
“re-accommodating customers” was offensive.
Engaging in “blaming the victim” by describing the man who was dragged,
while screaming and bleeding, up the aisle and off the airplane as both “disruptive
and belligerent” made matters worse.
However, as United Airlines watched their market value plummet by $250
million, this story began to take on an even more shameful context.
Does the background of a fare-paying passenger
matter when evaluating an infringement on his rights? No. His
“troubled past” should be completely irrelevant as to how United Airlines
handled the forcible removal of a ticketed passenger unwilling to give up his
seat. United Airlines actions are
reprehensible and unjustified. We
must not allow ourselves to be distracted by the salacious details of Dr. Dao’s
life story; unless we are ready to risk exposure of our own personal secrets
should we refuse to give up our paid seat someday.
The victim in this story is the passenger and could
have just as easily been any one of us.
More troubling to me is the thought Dr. Dao might be suffering from
PTSD, in my opinion, based on the video footage. The fear conveyed in his guttural scream
coupled with his passive demeanor as
he was dragged down the aisle of the airplane indicated Dr. Dao seemed familiar
with the brutality of forced compliance. At no point on the video is Dao seen
attacking the security officers. In
fact, he was later observed standing in the aisle saying quietly, "I want
to go home, I want to go home."
However, Dr.
Dao’s
hometown paper, the
Courier-Journal, capitalized on the opportunity to break a story, noting he
was convicted of a drug-related offense more than a decade ago. As if implying United Airlines was vindicated
in their mistreatment of him; in effect, victimizing him twice. His medical license was suspended by the
Kentucky Board of Medical Licensure and reinstated in 2016. Public
documents indeed confirmed Dr. Dao carries a diagnosis of PTSD stemming from
his traumatic childhood and additional distress experienced while working as a
physician after coming to America.
Dr. Dao initially agreed to disembark the overbooked
flight, from news reports, and when he discovered the next flight was not until
Monday afternoon, he expressed the need to return to work. He is recorded on video saying “I can’t be
late, I’m a doctor. I’ve got to be there
at 8am tomorrow.” His license is
restricted with supervisory requirements.
It is highly likely unexplained absences could harm his chances of a
full return to an occupation he dearly loves.
Research has found
(Blair, 2000), 85% of Asian refugees had experienced horrible traumas
prior to immigrating to the United States, including starvation, torture, and
losing family members to war. A report
released by the Surgeon General’s Office in 2001, reveals the effect culture, race, and ethnicity
can have on mental health. Suffering
from a mental health disorder can be highly stigmatizing and reflect poorly on
one’s “family honor,” making it difficult to accept. Historical events and circumstances many
individuals of Asian descent have lived through can be extremely
traumatic. One study found as many as 70% of Southeast Asian immigrants
suffer from PTSD.
Dr. Dao graduated from the University of Medicine of Ho Chi Minh City in
Vietnam, in 1974, a tumultuous time in Vietnam before the fall of Saigon in
1975. He very likely has had experiences
many of us born and raised in America cannot fathom. His lawyer confirmed as much this morning on a
live news conference. This
man is the father of 5 children, four of whom are physicians, and he is married
to a pediatrician. He has clearly worked
very hard and overcome numerous obstacles in his life. He has atoned for his own missteps while
holding his head high and that deserves our respect. According to public record, he complied
satisfactorily with The Kentucky Board of Medical Licensure recommendations for
rehabilitation and requirements to have his license reinstated. Dr. Dao embodies a quintessential American
story.
Let us return for a moment to United Flight 3411 last Sunday evening where
this man was physically assaulted as he was forcibly removed from the airplane
he had been initially allowed to board.
Can you imagine his fear and anxiety as he was “selected” to be evicted? When three large men returned to force him
from his seat, what was HIS subjective experience? Even, the passengers who stood up for Dr. Dao
were emotionally disturbed witnessing this horrifying event.
How more emotionally provocative would it be if one already suffered from
PTSD, anxiety, or depression? If the airline
industry cannot make allowances for individuals in this country who are singled
out unfairly on the basis of age, race, or even disability, then everyday Americans
must stand up for those individuals being victimized who are unable to do so for
themselves. This could have happened to
any one of us.
Nelson Mandela once said, “To deny people their human rights is to
challenge their very humanity.” A second
hero in this story, in addition to Dr. Dao, is the woman who said, “No. This is wrong. Oh My God.
Look at what you are doing to him.”
Thank you for lending your support to someone being mistreated.
If we as a nation lose sight of our humanity, we will lose everything for
which we stand. Corporations are not people. We should bring United Airlines to their
knees until they truly comprehend the damage they have done, mentally,
physically, and emotionally to this innocent 69 year old physician and man. United Airlines should do more than apologize
profusely; they should ask forgiveness of Dr. Dao, his family, our nation, and
the world.
Thank you for this. I'm part of a medical mission group that goes to Vietnam yearly so this resonated with me. I've gone to Vietnam twice for the 2.5 weeks and we spend it mostly in rural villages. The stories the original physicians and other medical folks tell about soldiers holding firearms while watching them as they saw patients was eye-opening as an American. That doesn't happen anymore but there are always obstacles. Not from the people themselves as they always seem very welcoming. But the government officials like to toss obstacles in our way sometimes. Again, thank you for bringing this physician's background into the mix of this story.
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